Jared Smith-Valentine, MSEd, LPCC-S, CST

LICENSED PROFESSIONAL CLINICAL COUNSELOR, CERTIFIED SEX THERAPIST

The therapy I (pronouns: he/they) practice is empirically informed, LGBTQ+ affirming and trained, empirically focused, strength-based, and directive. I believe therapy should be a brave and whimsical space and the clients who work best in my care tend to be curious to know themselves on a deeper level and open to trying something new. Being neurodivergent myself, all of the models I use are adapted to work for no neurotypical clients. I fall under the category of eclectic therapists which means I draw from many models. Here is a list of some of the therapies I frequently use: ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), DBT skills (Dialectical Behavior Therapy), Systems therapies, Person-Centered Therapy, TFCBT (Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), Narrative Therapies, The Circle of Courage model, LGBTQ+ affirmative therapies, and models of Sex Therapy.

My direct experiences as a queer, neurodivergent human with a chronic health condition directly impact my practice. Therapies under my care focus on the social model of disability and are a mutual collaboration centering the clients’ needs and experiences while acknowledging the systemic trauma that we walk through life with. My therapeutic lens acknowledges the racist, sexist, ableist, and queerphobic roots and current practices of the mental health field and works to find effective strategies for clients which are depathologizing and rooted in liberating and decolonizing the practice of therapy. My career path has given me opportunities to work directly within my queer community and given me experience in working in an individual, systemic, and community capacity with both adults and pediatric clients.

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JARED@TANDEMCOLUMBUS.COM

Range of clinical focus:

  • Disorders of Affect (Anxiety, Depression, Mood Disorders)

  • ADHD and General Executive Dysfunction

  • Disenfranchised Grief and Ambivalent Loss 

  • LGBTQ+ Affirmative Therapies

  • Issues of Erotic Function, Identity, Orientation, or Expression

  • Kink-Informed & Sex Positive Practice

  • Navigating Relational Structure (monogamy, CNM, Polyam, etc.)

I began my training in undergrad working for suicide prevention organizations and volunteering to work with queer youth. It was here I felt the impact of the lack of resources which have helped fuel my passion for work within my community. I obtained my master’s degree from the University of Dayton and upon becoming licensed began working in community levels of care and within school and hospital systems. I have spent the last several years of my career working in LGBTQ+ focused healthcare systems, becoming a supervising clinician, working in private practice settings, providing gender affirming care, and becoming licensed as an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST). I have experience working with those who identify within the LGBTQ+ community, aiding in the exploration of one’s identity, “coming out” process, transitioning, and more. I also have experience in working with those in poly or non-traditional relationships as they consider and/or work to open their relationship. I believe in the experiences whom PLWH categories as AIDS Survivors Syndrome and I advocate for competent and informed treatment and resources for Long-Term Survivors. 

Coming from a small Appalachian town and a conservative family, I never had exposure to queer people or culture growing up.  I think if I had, it might have helped me understand why I felt different than the other kids. If I had been able to receive my ADHD diagnosis in childhood, I think that also would have helped explain a few things. I have always been a highly curious person, and so, with the support of friends and my own therapy, I have developed a strong sense of my neurodivergence and my queer identity. Along the way I have found amazing partnership and developed lifelong bonds with my partners, and so I added understanding polyamory, CNM relationships, and crafting relationship fit to my list of things I learned about.  I found that I was impassioned by working with other LGBTQ+ people and noticed that there was a lot of important issues and cultural nuance that went frequently unaddressed in my workplaces- and so I started working towards becoming a sex therapist to be able to bridge these gaps.  And now in becoming a sex therapist I have gotten to explore my community, myself, and my relationships in even more ways.  I am so excited to report that I am still learning about new things in the world and myself.  I think that is my favorite part of being a therapist, being able to sit in mutual curiosity and give people the opportunity to explore lifelong learning and feel more authentic. In my free time I enjoy video games, comics, spending time with my loved ones (cats, family, and my partners), researching, collecting, exploring new places, crafting, and finding new gluten-free places I can eat.

Personal

I work with clients of all backgrounds, however the concentration of my work over the past several years has been working with LGBTQ+ individuals and individuals with executive dysfunction, and clients seeking sex therapy.   

I received my master’s degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from the University of Dayton in the year 2017. My practicum and internship experiences focused on working in pediatric, school-based, and community levels of care.  I was fortunate to be supported by my program in adapting my coursework to focus on LGBTQ+, polyam, and neurodivergent issues. I was probably annoying to the instructors as I would routine ask “can I do this systems research on polycules, instead?” “Can I center this on LGBTQ+ client experience”, etc. I had good colleagues and collaboration and was able to confidently pass my licensing exams. 2 years later when I had accrued the necessary field experience I was able to upgrade my license from LPC to LPCC allowing me to practice independently. A year later I was able to add my supervisory designation which is my current license LPCC-S which allows me to guide other clinicians. Following completing my licensure journey I began my course work to become a sex therapist and with the help from my program, workplace, and supervisors became an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) two years later in 2023. My next goal is to earn my Sex Therapy Supervisor Designation over the next 3 years.

Training & Experience

Licensed Professional Counselor, and Supervisor: e.1901337-SUPV, Counselor, Social Worker, and Marriage & Family Board of Ohio, 2019-current

Licensure

Master of Science in Education (MSEd), Clinical Mental Health Counseling, University of Dayton, 2017

Bachelor of Arts, Psychology, The Ohio State University, 2013

Associate of Arts, Psychology, Columbus State Community College, 2011

Degrees

Certified Sex Therapist, American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), 2023

Other Education & Certification

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